Monday, March 28, 2016

LIFE IS NOT FAIR?

YES.
There are sometimes in life make you feel like LIFE is NOT FAIR..

This happened a lot when someone else get an extra longgg holiday. and when it is your turn, you didnt get the approval. Even you really and desperately need it.. :)

Or there is one time you feel like "Bos ni asyik aku je, bukannya takde orang lain nak suruh buat  ni...
Dah menimbum kerja ni dia tambah lagi.."

Or when you give all out in your works (like decorating the class, choral speaking training, etc) and someone did get the chance to posted it on whatsapp/facebook and said that he/she did that. And your boss praise him/her for the great job done..  but you the other way around are less fortunate. Kena perli dan kekadang tu nasib badan kena marah pula dengan boss.


See...?
This what makes we think LIFE IS NOT FAIR... Trust me. We should stop. Stop wasting our time.
As yes, Life is not fair but if we keep thinking about life is not fair to us. We aren't going anywhere..


Why not we try to make it to the bright side.

Be positive.
I'm not saying that we just have to accept everything that people ask us to do. .

so, memang ada orang yang hempas pulas buat kerja tapi dia bukan jenis pukul gendang/ kompang setiap kali nak buat kerja. Dia buat dan selesaikan kerja dia. Without telling anyone or boasting around.

ada juga yang jenis belum buat apa-apa lagi tapi dah pom pang pom pang mentioned and telling people about what he/she going to do...

My advice.
Biar la apa orang nak kata as long as kita buat kerja kita dan masih lagi mengamalkan adab-adab dan akhlak baik. Tak perlu kita nak mengata orang "Alaa.. dia tu buat sikit pun menunjuk".. "Eleh.. aku dah buat banyak rileks je, tak post pun kat FB/whatsapp...

And if someone get an award or reward. Daripada pertikaikan dia layak atau tak, lebih baik kita doakan yang baik-baik untuk dia dan hopefully we can work to get our own award too... Tak perlu pertikaikan apa-apa. And that way, you are going to save your energy a lot. Seriously, dengki phd mengata tu semua consume your energy tau...

So, better kita doakan baik-baik untuk dia dalam diam, sebab nanti akan ada malaikat mendoakan yang sama buat kita.. ^_^




One of my principles,
"If you want to be happy, learn to be happy. Dont ever give up.

Fight for what you want. If you still dont realize, that's what Allah wants us to do. Fight for it. To make sure we deserve it. And it is really worthy...


Thus, Life actually is depend on us how we look at it, and how we face it. Accepting the obstacles and find the way to overcome it. Everything in life happened for a reason.. Only that we need to get used to it. It takes some times.. but you'll survive. :D


The most important thing is :
Trust Him. Remember Him.. and pray to Him. Allah the Al-Mighty...






Thank you for spending your time here.. see you then..

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